Writing

Emotion In the Message

I was talking with a client and friend of mine about being comfortable speaking in an interview situation about what she does. She knows her stuff from top to bottom but gets the heebie-jeebies when in the spotlight. We spent a bit of time talking about why she does what she does and what it is that drives and inspires her. Then we identified some topics that directly related to those passions and will seek to target those topics in interviews. Needless to say she’s feels much more comfortable. She’s more confident because she is speaking from the heart…speaking with commitment…speaking with passion.Emotions1_2

Bob McClain of WordsmithBob.com, forwarded an article from one of his guests, Judy Merrick-Lockett, about emotions being the bottom line of success. The article talks about the number one factor determining success…emotional intelligence. It’s an interesting read and points out, as above, that your emotions are a great tool when used correctly. 

Of course, there is a time and place for restraint. Let’s not be going off on a rant about the high price of plumbers when someone asks the way to the bathroom or starving kids in China when your kids say they’ve had enough to eat (Mom!).  At the same time don’t be afraid to be emotionally involved when you communicate whether in writing, during presentations, or in conversation. Too often we get caught up in what and how something should be communicated and miss the chance to really connect with the message and our audience. In a world crowded with too many messages, a bit of passion and commitment will go along way in cutting through the clutter.

A Note for the Teacher

Dear ______,

I was looking through the handout that came home with my son regarding your plans, expectations, and policies for your communications class. I truly appreciate all your hard work and will do everything in my power to help my son excel in your class and develop a strong interest in communication as I have. 

Digital_pen_2 Also, I wanted to ask if you have anything in your curriculum regarding communicating in the "New Media" world including e-mail, text messaging, voicemail, blogging, etc... If so, great! If not, I'd like to talk with you about the subject.

Whether it's a one day topic or a week long "unit", the way our kids communicate today is much different and involves a technology that’s quite different than previous generations. Text messaging has already become the communication of choice among our youth and has spawned a whole new “language” while e-mail is the standard in the business community. It is vital that our kids learn the art of communication no matter what the vehicle. They must understand the difference between crafting a short story or composing a letter and how they text or e-mail. Imagine Hamlet written “2B?” You’d have to agree that what we write reflects who we are as an individual, as well as whom we are as a society, to readers now and in the future.

I know you have much on your plate as a new school year begins and I'm sure there are many things you wish to accomplish. I hope that this topic is part of your teaching plans, if not this year perhaps next.

Again, thanks so much for your dedication to our kids and thanks in advance for your time on this discussion. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Sincerely,

Phil  Wilson

Dad

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